Monday, 9 January 2012

Thank you Ward 10!



Did you know that Stoke-on-Trent has some of the best facilities to treat & support rehabilitation after a stroke? Don't feel bad if you didn't know that because, let's be honest - we all hope you never have to make use of those facilities.





Acute Stroke Unit Ward 10 is the specialist ward that deals with male patients post-stroke. Padre really made leaps & bounds of improvement under their care. Not only medically but personally too. As the minutes stretch into days after a stroke, there can be some fairly dark moments for even the most headstrong survivor but Padre would have a smile for the Lady Nurses. The patient's family is well cared for too. Admittedly, as much as it wouldn't be my usual hangout, it was comforting to see the same families & staff every day. I quite missed them when we left - I even sent them a card! There's a ward just for the ladies too & if the staff on 10 were anything to go by, then the girls on 9 are in good hands. In addition to a full compliment of highly respected consultants (thank you, Prof. Christine Roffe) & trained nursing staff, the ward has Occupational and Speech & Language Therapists, as well as access to the Royal Infirmary's Health Services. They work swiftly after admission and once they've assessed the patient, provided treatment & stabilised him medically, rehabilitation is begun & he is discharged. Sounds easy right?! In the best circumstances, being discharged is just a taxi ride home. Even in these 'ideal' conditions recovering from a stroke is a long-term process. In my father's case, he was discharged into the care of Haywood Hospital's Sneyd Ward.





The Haywood facility is truly brilliant & whilst my father was in their care we saw just how those rehabilitation services can help families & improve the lives of Stroke Survivors. Sadly, Padre never really took advantage of those facilities. He became very ill, quite quickly & was moved again to more medically-focused ward. I kept a diary documenting my father's progress & my viewpoint of his post-stroke experience. At first, I kept the diary for him. Padre journaled every night & it seemed only fitting that I should 'fill in the  blanks' until he could do it himself. As it became apparent that he wasn't going to take up the pen again, I continued the journal for myself. The results may turn up here yet, maybe. It depends how helpful the WWW. would find it!
Padre's Stroke Story might not be the kind of 'Against All Odds' tale that afternoon TV specials are made of, but if it wasn't for the sterling work of Ward 10, his experience would have been far more negative. Every day of my father's post-stroke existence was like panning for gold. The positives were there but some days you really had to search for them.
The fact of the matter is that stroke units like Ward 10 save lives: for a stroke patient, a general treatment ward holds a 14 per cent to 25 per cent higher mortality rate than an acute stroke unit*. So I'm massively grateful to Ward 10 & every other unit like it.
Unfortunately, not every patient has access to the kind of specialist care that North Staffs can provide & rehabilitation suites like Sneyd Ward have limited beds. Stroke Survivors can sometimes find themselves thrust into a 'normal' life feeling isolated & misunderstood. However, The Stroke Association has a fantastic project - The Life After Stroke Centre, housing a post-stroke support network for the whole West Midlands. Please head over & take a look around (and if you're feeling fruity, drop a few pennies in the jar!)

“This new Centre, the first of its kind in the UK, will ensure The Stroke Association can reach and help many more stroke survivors. So please join us now and be part of a unique project that will make a huge and positive impact on the journey of recovery for stroke survivors and their families.” Hilary Devey 

That's right, the terrifying new lady dragon from Dragon's Den.


*Royal College of Physicians, (2001), National Sentinel Audit for Stroke - Clinical Audit Report.

Monday, 2 January 2012

Before I die...

Before I die I want to…
sing for millions, see my daughter graduate, eat a salad with an alien, see the leaves change many times, be someone’s cavalry, straddle the International Date Line, cook a souffle, hold her one more time, make it in the hip hop, help numerous children, see what I’m like as an old man, tell my mother I love her, make peace with Ohio, abandon all insecurities, be completely myself, evaporate into the light…

I stumbled onto this art project by Candy Chang just after Christmas and I was blown away!
I've always had a soft spot for projects which are fully integrated into communities, but for some reason this one really grabs me. Maybe it's because deep-down I really wish I could stumble across something like this in real life.


There's such a palpable sense of hope in some of the writings & who doesn't love scribbling with chalk! Let's not forget that this art project started on a derelict house in New Orleans. The birthplace of Jazz and a city ranked highly on my 'Before I die' List! Those hopes and dreams garnered by the Orleans community have inspired Walls across the world AND could come to a town near YOU!


I'll be honest. I'm thinking of signing up for a Before I Die Toolkit. I asked MrR what he thought of the project, his response was "Knowing people round here, someone would nick the chalk." Sadly, he's probably right. But isn't that exactly the point? Chalk can be replaced & the wall can be washed and renewed. The voices can continue to be heard. Those dreams can continue to inspire & engage. In an area where someone's idea of a good time is nicking chalk - The community needs a Wall.



Happy New Year, Lazy B*+$#!!

"Where the hell have you been!? You haven't blogged here since October 2010... and it's 2012 now!! What kind of excuse can you possibly have for your absence? Eh? There's been a distinct lack of unnecessary punctuation & random spacing for far too long! So go on. What's your excuse? Did you just forget Atominade even exists?"

Well... yes.

However, there are mitigating circumstances. In Oct 2011, I shaved my head and bleached the resultant stubble, into a glorious and glowing 'do. The next morning, having felt slightly off-kilter for a day or two, I pee'd on a stick and well...



As I'm sure you can understand, being pregnant & working full-time whilst trying to maintain a blog can be really tricky when you are as spectacularly lazy as I am. I kept drafting the 'I Am Pregnant' Post, but couldn't word it as I wanted to. Plus in all honesty, I wasn't sure how much of the Newt's life I wanted to share with the WWW.
I had a grand old time getting bigger and bigger! Spending large swathes of my wages on ASOS Maternity and working on integrating the bump into my style was SO much fun. However, in May 2011 as I entered the uncomfortably large stage of pregnancy, my beloved father suffered a massive ischemic stroke. Unable to speak or move his right side, Padre never came home. Right now isn't the time to go into the details, but if you want to learn more or you need support The Stroke Association is an incredible resource.

The much needed view on Holywell Beach at the end of summer

Summer 2011 was spent alternating visits to the City General to see Padre with trips to the Maternity Unit to see when the Newt would turn up. In July and nearly two weeks behind Due Date, the beautiful Miss Newt brought her laughing face into the world! Within 48hrs, having waited long enough, Padre drew his last breath. As distressing as it was to say goodbye, it was truly awe-inspiring to witness the outpouring of love & admiration there was for him. My sisters & I received some wonderful words from some wonderful people, including many I've never had the privilege of meeting.
So between changing Nappies, arranging funerals and filing an ungodly amount of paperwork followed by staring at the sea - I can be forgiven for a little slacking.

I guess what all this comes to is that I foresee some great changes ahead and I'm taking Atominade along for the ride. I'm resurrecting Atominade, improving the content & frequency and shooting some great big bubbles into the world!

So, I'm looking forward to 2012 with "a grateful prayer and a thankful heart" (Huge respect if you can place the quote!) It will be a great big cathartic exercise in drawing on the past in order to shape the future. There will be some tough moments and some awkward questions, such as; 'How does an Aggressive Optimist deal with death?', 'When is the right time to make a Will?' and 'What DO you wear when everything you own is covered in baby snot?' As tricky as it might be to navigate through the effervescent ramblings, I promise I will not abandon you.

I truly hope you're on board.

T
Xx